Everything in our life is depending on energy and we are often unaware of it. If we are surrounded by people, it has the ability to ruin our life. These people can destroy our inner peace and self-esteem.
The relationships we have in our life should be positive and meaningful. By learning to recognize toxic people and detach them from our life we can be happy in life.
The negative people are manipulative, dangerous, and deceitful. Even though they are aware of it, they never admit their mistakes. They think only of their own feelings and opinions as they are obsessed with themselves and they don’t care of others.
These people are always playing the victim, never apologize, or at least, they never mean it and they always have an ulterior motive. When we make a mistake, we do apologize for it as everyone is not perfect.
But, toxic people are not like us. They always believe they are perfect and never be wrong. Because of that, they always justify their behavior.
They’ll blame others if they cannot find a suitable excuse. These toxic people have a fragile ego, and brittle self-esteem. So, their “psychological constitution” cannot bear the thought of being wrong.
As this is very difficult for their egos to tolerate, their defense mechanism is to distort their perception of reality. Toxic people are also not mature enough to own up their mistakes and take responsibility for their actions.
There is no way to reason toxic people as they are very clever to turn the tables around by making you feel the guilt. They are good enough in confident, and even highly attractive.
Their partner cannot grow because of their toxic side. It’s really difficult to maintain a relationship with a toxic partner as they never change or try to improve.
You will drain yourself and you will have to apologize for their mistakes at the end. Leave this unhealthy relationship as soon as possible.
They will try to control the situation and entrap you. But, just leave them as it’s a trick of keeping you.