There are so many people who are terrified and insecure but still settling down. There are also people who marry mature individuals who cannot stand each other.
There are also people who were so pressured by society and finally gave in and settled down for just about anyone as they were too afraid that they might end up alone.
I would rather wonder whether a relationship, a comfortable marriage, or a safe future all there is to life.
We have been also desperate that we’ve suddenly reached the stage of accepting whatever comes our way.
Being alone is not scary or a sickness or a curse. It also not means that someone is lonely. Don’t let society’s poor standards affect you. Don’t let other people’s insecurities put you down.
Until you finally cross your paths with the charming knight on a white horse or the beautiful princess in the magical forest, being alone is the best thing you can do.
Instead of settling for shitty, annoying dates that make you want to vomit for actually agreeing to go out, being lonely is the perfect thing. Being alone is better than pretending you’re having fun with someone when all you can think about is your warm bed. Don’t give yourself to a man who sees you only as a trophy wife and doesn’t give a damn about you.
Being alone is the best thing to do.
Never settle for half-assed love.
One day you’ll find someone who will look at you like you are magic and their whole universe. This person will find shelter in your heart and will love you endlessly.
He will actually want to spend all of their free time with you, not someone who will make thousands of foolish excuses just to avoid going out with you. He won’t stand to be apart from you.
He will inspire you, motivate you to work on yourself and help you open your wings and fly. He won’t be intimidated by your big dreams, but he will celebrate your achievements as they were their own.
He will always be around and he will actually give a shit about how you feel. This person will know how and when to say, “I’m sorry”.
He won’t ghost on you or abandon you whenever you need their biggest support. He will put you first on his priority list and he will not consider you just an option.
These people are very rare to find nowadays and stay alone until you find this person.
But, life is short. And we only get one.
So, stay alone until you meet someone who is worthy of your love.