You may think of many reasons for him not paying enough attention to you. If you are confused, disappointed and exhausted from deciphering his actions and you desperately need answers for his behavior, this article will help you.

Welcome and make yourself at home.

The things written in this article will be little bit tough to believe, but it’s “better to get hurt by the truth than comforted with a lie”.

It is really hard for you to explain the reality in which you live in. And it’s also really difficult to go back to the moment you met him and try to find the reason for falling in love with him.

Don’t get disappointed. You are responsible for that mistake. At the same time, you are responsible for correcting that mistake. Only you can help yourself.

So, listen to me.

If a man truly wants you in his life, he will do everything in his power to keep you. He will pursue you, bend over backward, face many obstacles, get rid of the things that bother you, change and do the necessary to keep you in his life if he really wants you.

When men found the woman of their dreams they are unstoppable. They would never give up on pursuing you as they love the chase.

Men go after it when they want something.

And they make plenty of excuses as to why they’re not right there beside you, but rather somewhere else when they really want to go away from you.

They have many reasons, they’re busy, they’re swamped with work, they’re tired, they already have a guy’s night planned, they fell asleep and forgot to call you, they’re taking a shower, their car is broken, and they have a family dinner.

All the things are urgent, something that needs to be done exactly in the same time when you need to spend some quality time with him. Everything is more important than you for him.

The truth is that everything is probably more important than you.

He would have done everything to pursue you and keep you beside him if you were his top priority, and he was completely into you. He wouldn’t have misled you with his confusing messages, he wouldn’t have made stupid excuses, he would have done everything to be with you and pay attention only to you if he was really in love with you like he says.

So, ladies, don’t be just another notch in his bedpost or a part of his game or get carried away by his sugar-coated lies.

Understand and accept the bitter truth. He is just not that into you. 

Let him go as he’s simply not the one for you.

You’ll find someone who can recognize your pure soul and beauty. You will find a person who will show you what it feels to be loved. That day may seem like it’s far away, but one day it will come.

Before that, you have to learn to love and respect yourself, to find the strength within you to let go of everything and everyone that hurts you and focus on your wellbeing. You can make time for yourself; take good care of yourself in the meantime.