Life carries many harsh truths even there are more “shit” together with us. We can’t run away from those truths. We can take full responsibility of our lives by accepting them.
You may know a little bit of these already. Here we are going to tell you the rest.
We don’t want you to feel a pessimistic rant about how tough life is; we just want to motivate you to take action armed with this knowledge.
Here are 8 brutally honest truths you need to hear if you want to get your shit together
- You’re Going to Regret How Much Time You Spend on Social Media
We all are addicted to social media as it’s amazing. Social media makes us all disconnected as the increased connection. Even we can communicate with a thousand people there’s no depth.
Social media rob our real connections and real-life experiences. We don’t enjoy our surrounding as we walk somewhere. Rather than that, we regress to what the digital world has to offer. If we can’t get rid of this, things could be really scary.
- Your Reactions Are the Problem
Shit happens every day and it sometimes really hard to go through or deal with. If anything happens, it’s going to impact our lives with the way how we react to it.
You are the one who decides how much, and for how long, getting cut off on the highway is going to piss you off, and how much someone’s poor opinion of you is going to make you shell up in insecurity. You should choose how long you want to let natural reactions impact everything on you.
- The Riskiest Thing You Can Do Is Avoid Risks
Even you’re risk-seeker or not, complacency is riskier. You will not be able to come to a point where you can simply be happy and want to sustain that lifestyle. But, if you never take any risks, it will be more dangerous.
If you want to play big, play bid without playing small. If you want it more and more don’t tell yourself, “this is good enough”. You can be long-term happy by taking that risk.
- You Should Always Have Enough Money for What Matters
You should be more motivated to do things that really matter, without thinking that, “I would love to attend that seminar or buy that course that can change my life, but money is too tight right now.”
We spend more on the things that is not much important. We need to treat our selves, but we over think to spend a bit of money on a life-changing matter
- People Are Going to Hate You No Matter What You Do
You will please people in this life, but whatever you do some people will hate you always. Don’t try to match what you think is the most acceptable; it’s a waste of time. Rather than that, try to accept exactly who you are.
- Blaming Only Makes You Weaker
By direct blaming to a circumstance or a person is relieving, but it really takes a toll in the long term. You’ll become weaker in mentally if you take less responsibility for your actions.
The responsibilities may occur with some immediate repercussions. But later on, responsibilities help you to build honesty and make you strengthen to fight with challenges.
- People Don’t Think of You as Much as You Think They Do
As we all know, the whole world revolves around us. Not only have us, 7 billion people around the world seen it as the same way. We all are far more concerned with how we are perceived by others than how we perceive them while we are not all inherently selfish or self-obsessed.
Try to embrace your true self and find peace in knowing that others are more concerned on themselves to give you much attention as you think.
- Not Even the Perfect Relationship is Going to Complete You
Even though you have a relationship that is very strong and loving, true happiness comes from within and cannot be filled by another.
The relationship is not the basis of happiness; it’s an only extension of happiness. Try to strengthening yourself, and then others will follow you.